There is no wrong definition as to who a mother is as every individual has a different definition of who a mother is according to the person's personality.
a mother is the female parent of a child,one who inhabit or perform the role of bearing some relation to her child who may or may not be her biological offspring.
A mother loves her child unconditionally,cares,carters for the child and groms the child.the mother is a role model to the child .she also puts her family first before anything else.
A mother has these other qualities; hard work, patient,humility, kind, simple,persevere,tolerant,forgiving spirit,understanding,farsightedness.the above are strong foundation for a child,a mother's love is indescribable.
mother's are exceptional beings created by God.first the mother takes care of her husband by totally submitting to him.she accepts that she's under the man and so surrenders her all to him.a mother respects her husband ,makes sure he looks good and is healthy ,adores him with her life and does all the house chores,
sha takes in,carries the baby in her womb for 9 months until she's due to give birth,(sometimes have a miscarriage)she suffers in the labour room for hours pushing to give birth to the baby.
it is now a different story altogether having to carter and nurture the baby teaching him/her all the ethics there is to know not leaving her duty to her husband as a wife.
with all these responsibilities a mother has,a lot of people still feel at a point that the mother should take responsibility for the child or husbands action.this is wrong for it is said ''you can take a horse to the river but you cannot force it to drink water''. once a child is old enough to know his right from wrong,the mother's duty cannot be more than an advice to the child because whether or not the child is asked not to do a particular thing,it is his will he does .This has nothing to do with his upbringing,we meet different people everyday of our life some drop their home training while they are out while some embrace it everywhere they find themselves it is left for the individual to decide.our mothers do not always know our whereabout no matter the policing and how good they are.
BABA,AUGUSTINA JOHN



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