Nobody Should Be Told How To Heal;Don't be the judge.

In life,we are all tested differently,broken differently ,our scars fade differently and heal differently.a saying goes "Everyone is right in his own perspective".we all face problems differently no matter how related it could be,the way you handle yours cannot be exactly same with how another will handle it. Every individual is answerable to his or her actions and so should be allowed to grieve how they want to, when they want to and however long they want to.

There are different kinds of people in life, those that feel depressed but are so great in hiding it pretending to be fine,those that cannot just keep it to their selves, it must go out,those that that hint others but won't say what ,those that are lousy and cannot kip shut about anything they have an encounter with.All been said, you do not expect them to act the same way or grieve in the same way.

"when you come in contact with a new situation do not criticize,do not praise try to understand it"Spinoza. Don't be quick to judgment .stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure.If you cannot be kind,say nothing.You don't have to understand everyone's journey or life's choices but to respect it.Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge,pray  when it's your turn,you remain standing to handle it half as strong or perfect as you claim.

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                                                                                                       BABA, AUGUSTINA JOHN